Ladies: sometimes (most of the time) a dude is being nice because he’s only chasing after one thing. To him, you’re not a human being, but a personal vending machine to feed his lust and ego. Sometimes (rarely) a dude is being nice because he’s chasing after Jesus. To him, you’re not only a real human being but also a God-made creation with an amazing purpose and future. Pray you’d know the difference and don’t be fooled.